DBT: diary card, chain, and the dialectic
He wants to talk about his mother. The diary card says he cut on Thursday. The target hierarchy is not a suggestion, and holding it warmly is the whole skill.
What you are practising
- 1Apply the target hierarchy without negotiating it
- 2Validate at the right level without validating the invalid
- 3Run a chain analysis that does not become an interrogation
- 4Hold acceptance and change in the same sentence
- 5Identify and target therapy-interfering behaviour
Briefing
Where you are
Week 9 of a standard programme: weekly individual, weekly skills group, phone coaching available, consultation team on Fridays. Theo has attended every session, completes about half his diary cards, and is in the distress tolerance module.
The card
This week: urges at 4–5 all week; cutting circled once, Thursday; skills use recorded on two days; alcohol on Friday and Saturday.
The case
Theo Kaminski
24, he/him, part-time barista, recently returned to his parents’ home
Recurrent self-harm, intense mood swings, and a pattern of relationships that begin intensely and end catastrophically.
Read the full case firstThe phases
- 1
The diary card
The card sets the agenda. Every time.
- 2
The chain
Reconstruct Thursday link by link, without it becoming punishment.
- 3
Solution analysis
Two or three links, rehearsed, with obstacles anticipated.
- 4
After the session
Consultation team, and your own reaction.